Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Welcoming Baby Abigail

Here I am finally with another update.  We've had some complications arise with the house, so we're saving pictures of it for another update.  Besides, we know you're more interested in finding about our new baby.  : )  First things first, pictures (pictures from Christmas and this Spring will be in the next update)...

April 5th, 2013, a few minutes after her birth









 
 



"Look at her little fingers!"


Singing "Truly Scrumptious" from Chitty Chitty Bang Bang to Abi 



 
Hannah

- We celebrated Hannah's "5th" birthday on 2/23 (she's a Leap Day baby so no real b-day this year).  Both sets of grandparents were able to come up for the weekend, and she really enjoyed having them here.  We were also priveledged to have two sets of friends come over for the celebration too!  I find it hard to believe at times that 5 years have gone by since we welcomed her into the world.

- For those who remember her heart surgery, she has had no further issues with reflux or gagging, therefore we're believing she'll be good for life, but we'll keep monitoring.

- Favorite Activities:  Crafts, Reading (especially with the special reading pens that read the stories or words to her)

- Favorite Animal:  Hippos

- Favorite Color:  Pink (sometimes Purple too)

- Clothing Size:  5 for tops, 4 for bottoms

- Weight:  31.6 lbs at her 5 year check-up (Has to be 40 pounds before we can move her into a booster rather than a harness carseat)

- Height: 40 inches

- School Progress:  (Despite that my efforts have been hit and miss, she has learned a lot):  Can write the majority of the alphabet, is reading short sentences, knows many Bible stories and verses, knows her full name and address... The list goes on...

 
Kaitlyn

- Age: 2 1/2

- Favorite Activies:  Puzzles, Reading

- Favorite Animal:  Monkey

- Favorite Color: Sometimes Purple, Sometimes blue

- Clothing Size: 3T (pants are a touch long but not much!)

- Weight: 31 lbs. (at Hannah's 5-year check-up)

- Height: 35.5"

- School Progress:  Recites her alphabet, can identify some letters and numbers, can count to 10, knows her colors and shapes, knows several Bible verses, knows her first and middle name... and more!

 
Abigail Rose

- Born April 5th at 6:25 p.m., 6 lbs. 15 oz., 19 in long, 13.5 in head

- At 2-week Check-Up: 7 lbs. 5 oz., 20 in long, 13.8 head

- Complications:  None!  : )  Has had no signs of major reflux, nor jaundice -- Yay!
 
- Is sensitive to caffeine and has been gassy but otherwise she is doing great!
 
- Feeding Frequency:  Every 2.5-3 hours, except a 4.5-5 hour stretch at night.  She wakes for most of her feedings.
 
- Is definitely a screamer.  Right before she was born, we heard a newborn crying in the hall, and commented that the baby was rather loud for a newborn.  Well then Abi was born, and she screamed, yes screamed in a very high pitched loud screech.  She now has more variety in her cries, but still goes from 0 to 90 decibels in an instant.  Luckily, I have learned that she usually grunts or squeaks as she's about to wake, and so try to grab her before she wakes up and cries.
 
 
First Few Weeks with Abigail...
 
- Abigail and Mommy stayed one night in the hospital after her birth, and then went home as there were no complications.
 
- Our first two nights at home, included the whole family plus Josh's parents.  Then Josh's parents took Hannah and Kaitlyn for a 9-day vacation at their house, so Josh and I could rest and get to know Abigail.  (Totally stole the idea from another mom whose blog I read, it was too good of an idea to pass up).  Conequently, week two and three have not been the typical sleep deprivation dazedness it could have been.
 
- Late on her 11th day, Hannah and Kaitlyn returned home and have loved being able to cuddle with Abi on a daily basis.  Kaitlyn does not like for Abi to cry so will run and get me if I'm not in the room to console Abi.  Kaity also helps by getting diapers, burp cloths, etc when needed.  Hannah is good at consoling Abi and also helps bring things when needed.
 
- So far everything is going great, adding one more little one to the mix has not "rocked the boat" but perhaps that will change as she gets bigger
 
 
Pregnancy, Labor, Delivery, and Recovery...
 
Pregnancy:  My OBGYN commented about week 37 that I had had a "model pregnancy".  Unlike previous pregnancies, I never had issues with my blood pressure.  The only complication I had was that my asthma symptoms were worse, but my asthma was far better this pregnancy than during the prior one.  I did have morning sickness more this time than previously, and at any point during the pregnancy, I would get nauseated if there was pressure on my belly.  Everything else was within normal parameters, so other than more asthma meds I never needed additional prescriptions.  Due to my asthma, my doctor was not going to allow me to go past my due date (12th), however he also did not want to deliver me prior 39 weeks in an effort to try and avoid jaundice.
 
Labor and Delivery:  My water broke prematurely at about 9:15 p.m. on the 4th (8 days before my due date).  When I arrived at the hospital, they said that I was maybe 1 cm dialated but otherwise my body had not changed in preparation for delivery.  So I was hooked up to monitors and thus forced to sit or lay in bed through the labor.  At 9 a.m., I had not progressed despite having regularly spaced contractions 3-3.5 minutes apart for 45min-1 hour sessions, on and off all night.  This was about the time we also learned that my labor stalling was a typical complication of one's water breaking prematurely and that usually pitocin was needed.  As I was unaware of this complication, although I had been offered pitocin during the night, I had refused wanting to go through labor naturally.  So at about 9, they started me on pitocin, steadily increasing it every 30 minutes.  By noon, my contractions were so strong that I felt that surely I was almost ready to push.  Unfortunately, I had progressed to only 2 cm, however the contractions were as forceful and frequent as those last ones before the pushing stage.  My will and energy had depleted and I asked for my first ever epideral, and hour later it was in and running.  Ironically, while sitting on the edge of the bed for the epideral, I progressed from 2 to 7 cm.  I did not lose complete feeling and about 6 I had finally progressed to 10 cm, and about ten minutes later was feeling the urge to push.  After the doctor arrived and everything was setup, I went through three rounds of pushing through contractions, then partway through the beginning of the fourth, she was here. 
 
Recovery: I have had no complications from the epideral.  I did note a bit of tenderness at first, and it did take a few hours to fully regain feeling in my legs however I never completely loss feeling and could still feel contractions.  (I do not regret getting the epideral because I know that I could not have endured five more hours of contractions at that force and frequency, thus my dislike of pitocin, a sometimes necessary evil).  The only pain meds I had after the epideral, were ibuprofen pills.  I stopped using ibuprofen after that first week.

Thursday, December 6, 2012

Baby #3 News

First, here's Hannah and Kaitlyn with Santa....


Baby #3....

Finally had another ultrasound Tuesday afternoon, and the baby is a GIRL!  Two weeks ago, at a monthly checkup, the doctor declared the baby a boy because the baby wouldn't cooperate with the doplar for the heartbeat check, so much for that theory.

Jacqui - I thought for sure it was going to be a boy as my hormones seem to be stronger this time, as is my gag reflex. (Health-wise -  Finally over a head cold which caused almost a month of extra tiredness.  Have lost weight since we found out, and haven't gained yet but the doctors don't seem concerned.)

Josh - Was hoping for another girl because I know how to handle little girls now, but was shocked because I thought Jacqui somehow knew we were having a boy.

Hannah - Had a wanted a baby brother but is excited about the prospect of having 2 sisters.

Kaitlyn - Seems to understand there's a baby in Mommy's belly, but not sure she really understands what that means.

Baby Girl #3 - No names picked out officially yet.  Right on track for all her measurements and weight (15oz).  No adjustments to her predicted arrival date of 4/12.  Everything looked healthy according to the ultrasound.  Will have a fetal echo, a specialty ultrasound, on Tuesday to confirm that her aorta is in the correct position, whereas Hannah's makes a horseshoe and caused an aortic ring which was the reason behind her surgery at 4 months.

Thursday, November 8, 2012

And Then There Were Five...

We bought tiny pumpkins for each family member, and we each painted one...
 
Here's a collage of the kids with their pumpkins....


Pictures from our adventures these last few months...



Waiting for Mommy to checkout at WM
Ready for Trick or Treating




 
 
 
 
 
 
 


Lovings for Daddy this past Sunday afternoon
 

At Audobon Aquarium in New Orleans
 





 
Our dancing queens



Fun at the Steckel's Wedding















Yummy Whataburger!


After Lunch at "The Naz"


Riding a Polar Bear at the Columbus Zoo



"AHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"


 



First Ultrasound at 10 weeks 3 days: If you look close you can see the shadow of eyes and mouth, the outline of a nose and jaw line, and a developing arm... Pretty amazing considering how small the baby was!



More About Our Adventures...


July was a busy month as we became first-time home buyers!  Woohoo!  In nervous excitement, on July 17th we signed the closing paperwork.  The next day we loaded up our belongings from our apartment with the help of neighbors and coworkers, and moved in.  A few days later we took a road trip to Kentucky to pick up the rest of our belongings from storage, where most of our furniture and things had been for two years.  Upon our return, we unloaded with the help of friends and began the process of settling in.  With the help of my mom, my friends Heather and Bonnie, and extra energy (I'm guessing early pregnancy hormones), I had the whole house unpacked before the end of August.  Yes, I have a few boxes that need unpacked into permanent homes but we need cabinets or wardrobes first.  We have had three open houses and lots of gatherings, we love having people over.  So if you are in the neighborhood, feel free to drop by!  More about the house in the next blog.

September was a blurr of activity starting with Opening Weekend at MVNU.  Labor Day weekend is when all the students descend upon the MVNU campus for the start of the new school year.  Thus Josh is needed most of the weekend to provide technical support and training, so the girls and I took off on a road trip.  Our first stop was in Louisville, where we spent several days with family.  Then we headed to Tuscaloosa, where we spent some time with my Aunt Carol Sue.  Then we headed down to New Orleans, meeting up with most of Josh's extended family for a wedding, and squeezing in a trip to the Acquarium and French Market and a short visit with "Mommy's very tall friend", aka St. Nick. 

October was filled with trying to settle into a routine and enjoying the autumn leaves.  We finally made it to a "First Friday", Mount Vernon's monthly downtown family event that runs Apr-Oct every year.  We even made it down to Circleville's Pumpkin Festival, which has been going on for over a hundred years.  Just before Halloween, Josh came down with a nasty head cold which he lovingly shared with me.  Luckily, Halloween night we felt up to going out and I manned our "trunk or treat" booth while Josh took the girls around.




More about the family...


Daddy

There's been many changes since he took over as manager, so he is still trying to find a balance at work.  Several of his student techs graduated this past spring, and this fall, there are at least half a dozen freshman techs, so the overall level of knowledge of the team has dropped leading to a greater workload for Josh and his full-time staff.  Next year should go more smoothly as the techs will have a greater knowledge base.  Until then, the team is experiencing a lot of bumpy roads.  There's also a constortium between several of the Nazarene schools, and Josh has been appointed as the leader of the technology help desk portion, so that too has added to his workload.  Recently, there was a reduction in staff in the IT department and a reorganization, so that too has added to both the workload for the team and stress.  Please be in prayer for him as he tries to settle into a balanced work life.

Outside work, he is leading a small group study on "How to Study the Bible".  We're co-facilitiating a group on the "Growing Kids God's Way" materials.

Hannah

She is growing in knowledge and is eager learn.  I've been trying to get into a routine with homeschooling, and some days go great and others are ok.  She has really been enjoying her classes at church, and is especially excited about attending her Sunday morning class.  She loves to serve, especially when it comes to do things for little ones, like her sister.  Physically, she is still skinnier than the majority of 4 year olds, but height-wise she is average.  As of today, she has reached 40 inches, and the last doctor's office weigh-in she was about 31.5. 

Kaitlyn 

This little girl's vocabulary is growing by leaps and bounds.  She is literally like a parrot, repeating whatever she hears, and she does great at pronouncing almost everything.  She can count to 10, and knows almost all her ABCs.  She amazes me every day with how much her knowledge is expanding right now, she really is a little sponge.  She is quite the character and enjoys showing off her dancing and hopping and jumping skills.  Physically, she is chunkier than most 2 year olds, and height-wise is above average.  At the last doctor's weigh-in she was a pound heavier than Hannah at 32.5 pounds.  She won't stand still for us to get a height but she's at least 4 inches shorter than Hannah.

Baby #3

The baby is due April 12, 2013.  Our next ultrasound is December 4th at OSU, and that is when we'll learn the gender.  Hannah originally predicted twins, but now says the baby's a boy, and the last request was to name him "Abram".  Kaitlyn is only somewhat sure there really is a baby in Mommy's belly.  Daddy's not sure he wants a boy, so is currently leaning towards wanting another girl.  Mommy doesn't care, so long as we have a healthy baby.

Mommy

Besides being exhausted by 4 most days, I'm doing pretty well.  I had more morning sickness this pregnancy than prior ones, and I feel more tired and more grumpy.  Perhaps, I'm just more perceptive to my emotions this time, or perhaps I have post-pregnancy amnesia regarding the first two, but I feel like I have been way more prone to outbursts of emotions.  So on that note, please pray for Josh that he can survive my bouts of insanity and for the girls that they will be understanding and forgiving of Mommy's temporary insanity.  Although I conquered my goal of unpacking, I have yet to conquer my goal of creating and mainting a daily routine.  I think that my tiredness has really reaked havock on my plans, as I'm having a hard time simply maintaining even the laundry, and I feel like I'm in a constant state of catchup.  This too shall pass, right?  I'm looking forward to the days when my energy returns and I can find my daily rhythm, then I'll be able to start doing projects, like family history.


Next post...  Our new house!